Why payload — not tow rating — is the number that decides
A modern diesel pickup might advertise a 25,000 lb fifth-wheel tow rating while its door sticker shows 3,000 lb of payload. A 12,500 lb fifth wheel puts roughly 2,750 lb on the pin at 22% — add a 200 lb hitch and two adults, and that "half-capacity" trailer has already overloaded the truck. The tow rating never entered the conversation.
That's not an edge case; it's the normal case. Pin weight lands directly in the bed, so fifth wheels consume payload about twice as fast (per trailer pound) as bumper-pull trailers. It's why the forums are full of people who bought the truck the dealer said "tows 27k" and discovered it can't properly carry the pin of a 13k trailer. Full explanation here.
Checking a travel trailer instead?
Bumper-pull math is different — tongue weight runs 10–15% and a weight-distribution hitch changes the hardware. Use the travel trailer calculator.